Discover your strengths
What are you already doing well? How can you bring those skills to the table to work through your challenges?
When you first met, you only saw the joy of each other.
The romantic ways you both expressed that joy was front and center, learning each others’ stories and struggles, the lifelong promise of someone who “gets” you.
Sure, you may have envisioned there would be some hard times, but you saw yourself going through those challenges hand-in-hand, with understanding and care for each other.
The mechanics of life as a couple may be going forward, but your relationship has stalled, and you know it.
You know you need help, but how can talking about your issues, especially with a complete stranger, resolve them?
You’ve already been communicating to death, and it’s a no-go.
Romantic relationships need good communication, yes. But talking more isn’t really where it’s at.
What successful relationships absolutely do require is the ability to solve conflict. And not just resolve the issue, but do it in a way that honors the experiences and perceptions of both people.
This is hard to do on your own. You may need an objective person to come alongside and help you with this.
Your couples therapist can work with both of you to discover the skills you already have, and use those to develop healthy ways of working together.
Ways that you both can agree on.
Instead, he or she is your coach to help you discover your specific communication style as a couple.
Once you better understand how you’ve been working together so far, you can use that information to learn the skills that can help you move on together – hand-in-hand.
Rebuild your relationship and grow together again!
What are you already doing well? How can you bring those skills to the table to work through your challenges?
Learn how to be assertive and ask for what is missing from your relationship.
Find healthy ways to show each other that both of your needs matter.
If you prefer to bring a Christian perspective to the mix, we are happy to help you explore the ways your faith can strengthen you and expand your options for growth.
Learn more about the fee structure for our various services. If you have any questions about our rates, please contact us!
We love helping good people build great relationships!
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